Over the past year I have had to learn the hard way how to do the dishes because the girls can unload faster than I can load.
My new method is to prewash everything and stack it on the counter. Then when the girls are strapped into their highchairs, with no gettting down, I open up the dishwasher and quickly load. Or if I don't get to it while they are in their chairs, I put on a video for them and load quickly hoping that the lure of the video is stronger than the clank of dishes.
As of late their interest has been waning in the dishwasher. But just when I thought I was in the clear I have another new little helper that is going to make me have to refine my technique yet again.